My First Time Swinging.
I just had sex with 4 different men and 2 women. I never met them until last night and will probably never meet them again. I’m a 29 year old woman. After divorcing my husband, whom I was married to for 5 years and grew tired of, in every was possible, I had spent the last 6 months single and alone. While I hated having sex with my husband, at least I got to have sex. I never cheated on him but felt like there was a part of me that wanted to experience things outside of “the norm” sexually. I joined a few swinger forums online and then met up with some local, new york swingers.
In order to branch out and share yourselves with others, your own relationship needs to be examined before adding a new dynamic.Couples dating isn´t your everyday decision. If you are new to the swinging lifestyle and unsure of where to start, this is the time to look inside the dynamics of your relationship with your mate and determine: Do we have the essential elements needed to make an open relationship viable?Your best bet is to sit down with each other and have an open dialogue about your feelings, boundaries and worries.
I’m sitting here wondering if I would do it again. Would I? I don’t know but if I want to, all I have to do is log in and R.S.V.P. and I could be at another sex party tonight if I choose to. I don’t know where this road would lead to but I do feel a part of me was fulfilled.
If you want to hear more about my experience, leave a comment requesting more and I will add details. I just wanted to find a public forum, outside of my swinger communities, to share this with. Maybe I’m hoping to find more women like me who would be my “date” to some of these gatherings.
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
| 
